Divorce, Going to Hell, and Being Angry at God
Fr. Josh Johnson
Fr. Josh answers questions about contested divorce, if mortal sin automatically leads to hell without confession, and if anger at God is a sin. If you have a question, comment, or response for Fr. Josh, email us at askfrjosh@ascensionpress.com. You may hear your question or comment in an upcoming podcast episode!
Snippet from the Show:
If we don't have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, the rules of the Church will not make sense. (Because I didn’t know Jesus I didn’t care about the rules.) Rules without relationship will always lead to rebellion. Rules that flow from a relationship will make sense and lead to us becoming saints.
SHOWNOTES
Glory Story (2:45) Fr. Josh tells the story of how he lost within a week a first class relic of St. Teresa that an order of Carmelite nuns have had for over 100 years. Was he able to find it? Listener Feedback (10:15) Divorce (16:30) My wife and I have been married for 27 years. Both raised Catholic. We have 4 children. Oldest is 25, youngest is 7. She has been telling me for 3 years that I need to let her go and give her a divorce. After our last child, I didn’t want to have any more children (I was 43 at the time). Relationship started souring after that. Says she fell out of love with me. I have made many changes of my own free will to improve our relationship. It wasn’t good enough. She filed for divorce and it will be over in about 30 days. I didn’t want this to happen. What are my obligations to her, if many years from now, I meet someone that wants to love me and I her? -A Desperate Husband Going to Hell (24:58) Even as a practicing Catholic, I struggle with some serious vices that have led me to fall into mortal sin. These moments of fall, though through the grace of God are getting less and less, are punctuated by a panicked rush to find the sacrament of Reconciliation. I'm scared that even if I'm truly sorry, if I die before absolution, I will still go to hell. Does that fear come from the opposer? How can we tell the difference between guilt that helps us grow and guilt meant to shame and scare us away from God's reach? -Erin Being Angry at God (30:02) Is it a sin to be angry with God? Backstory, my husband is active duty military, and we are used to moving around frequently but my parents are aging and my children are getting to a sensitive age in school where they need extended family and stability. Opportunities in my husband’s career have presented themselves that would put us close to family, and also stabilize our children during high school. I have been praying Novenas nonstop, Rosaries, and thanksgiving prayers. Each time we get close to having our prayers answered, the opportunity is taken away and we are left empty-handed and disappointed. My faith is shaken and I just don’t understand. I pray that Jesus will show me his way, pray He will help me have faith in His plan, but I’ve become just angry and depressed. I’ve even briefly stopped going to mass because I would sit there and be so angry that my prayers have gone unanswered. I know I have sinned by missing mass, but what about being angry with God? Do I need to confess this too? Please keep my family in your prayers that we may see Jesus’s way through the pain of disappointment. -Military Wife Universal Points (37:54)- Divorce - God is calling us to love with the love of Christ.
- Going to Hell - Everyone struggles with sin whether venial or mortal, but you can find freedom in this life or purgatory if you refocus on the mercy of God more than your brokenness.
- Being Angry at God - God’s plans are far greater than ours.
