What does authentic masculinity and femininity actually look like? In part two of this special SEEK 26 episode, Dr. Sri continues his conversation with Pete Burak, focusing on one of the most pressing cultural dynamics facing young adults today: the growing tension between men and women. Together, they unpack how the Catholic faith helps us heal that tension and come to a fuller understanding of God's plan for each gender. 

Shownotes

Key Themes

• The rise of toxic masculinity and toxic femininity as reactions to cultural confusion
• How polarization and “us vs. them” thinking prevent real dialogue and growth
• The danger of adopting a victim mentality rather than embracing responsibility and grace
• Why healing must begin with intimacy with Jesus, not just self-analysis
• The difference between acknowledging wounds and identifying ourselves by them
• How fear of failure leads to passivity in men—and why risk for the sake of calling is essential
• Lessons from the biblical story of Gideon on courage, identity, and God-given mission
• The unique challenges women face today, including idealization, impatience, and trusting God’s timing
• Learning to wait on the Lord without despair, especially in vocation, marriage, and motherhood

Scripture Quotes 

1. Genesis 3:12–13
   Reference: Adam and Eve shifting blame after the Fall

   “The woman whom you put here with me—she gave me fruit from the tree, so I ate it.”
   “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”

2. Mark 9:24
   Direct quote used as a prayer recommendation:

   “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief.”

3. Mark 5:25–34 (Woman with the hemorrhage)
   Referenced imagery:

   Reaching out to “touch the cloak” of Jesus for healing

4. Judges 6:11–16
   Gideon called by God while hiding in fear:

   “The Lord is with you, mighty warrior.”

5. Judges 7:7
   Gideon’s calling to lead a radically reduced army:

   God sends Gideon with only 300 men to defeat the Midianites