Why Do I Feel Sadness When Others Succeed?

Why Do I Feel Sadness When Others Succeed?

Ascension Team

Why do we feel sadness when others succeed? Sr. Josephine Garrett joins Fr. Josh Johnson to discuss the sin of envy as he begins his season on the seven deadly sins. Together, they answer a question about why it's so hard to desire the success of others and explain how patience and humility help us overcome envious thoughts.  

Snippet of the Show

"Our feelings are information that must be submitted up to our intellect and to our reason to be properly ordered."

Shownotes

Struggling with Envy (8:27)

I'm trying to overcome the sin of envy and comparing myself to others by praying for those I compare against. But somewhere inside I know that the prayer is not genuine and I don't actually want their success despite my prayers. But at the same time, I do know I don't want to be like this. How do I shut the voice inside? (Anonymous)

The Litany of Humility

O Jesus! meek and humble of heart, Hear me.
From the desire of being esteemed, Deliver me, Jesus.
From the desire of being loved...
From the desire of being extolled ...
From the desire of being honored ...
From the desire of being praised ...
From the desire of being preferred to others...
From the desire of being consulted ...
From the desire of being approved ...
From the fear of being humiliated ...
From the fear of being despised...
From the fear of suffering rebukes ...
From the fear of being calumniated ...
From the fear of being forgotten ...
From the fear of being ridiculed ...
From the fear of being wronged ...
From the fear of being suspected ...
That others may be loved more than I,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.

That others may be esteemed more than I ...

That, in the opinion of the world,
others may increase and I may decrease ...
That others may be chosen and I set aside ...
That others may be praised and I unnoticed ...
That others may be preferred to me in everything...
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should…

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3 comments

Wow! Thank you!

Michelle P Yuhasz

Wow! Thank you!

Michelle P Yuhasz

Thank you for this very video on humility. Was so interesting.

Judy Schumacher

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